We're writing to you on our first night in Valparaíso, the last stop on our tour of Chile. We'll be here for five nights before our flight to Auckland, so we'll post again about our time in Valparaíso before we leave. Valparaíso is quite a change from our previous five weeks in Chile, which we mostly have spent in small cities and towns or in the mountains. Valparaíso is a port city on the Pacific Ocean of 250,000 people (nearly one million in the metro Valparaíso area). A bit over an hour west of Santiago, it's busy and loud. It's known for its cerros, or hills, which make the entire city kind of like the most hilly parts of San Francisco. Walking back to our apartment after a delicious dinner of fish caught and delivered this morning was a nice, short workout. Each cerro is kind of like its own neighborhood, as I understand it, and there are amazing painted wall murals all over. We're staying in Cerro Alegre, which is particularly famous for its murals.
But enough of Valparaíso for now. We've spent the last week in Punta Arenas (two nights) and Puerto Natales (four nights). Our AirBnB in Punta Arenas was lovely, but I'm not sure we'd visit the city again. Set on the Strait of Magellan, it's felt mostly like an access point for Tierra del Fuego, Isla Magdalena (which is home to a penguin colony), Antarctica, and Puerto Natales/Torres del Paine National Park.
We attempted to take the excursion to Isla Magdalena by ferry (which costs a fortune), but the trip was cancelled as we were boarding the ship because of high winds on the island. Punta Arenas, along with all of southern Patagonia, really, is famous for its high winds. Aimee and I found it particularly amusing that our AirBnB hosts let us know that the wifi in the house is great except at times where there is a lot of wind. Which is always.
Instead of the penguin excursion (No penguin excursion = win, as far as I'm concerned. Save hundreds of dollars not seeing birds that can't fly? Perfect.) we went to a maritime museum that included life-size replicas of one of Magellan's ships (he started off with four - one deserted while they were rounding South America) and the Beagle, Darwin's ship. Picture in your how big you think they are. Nope, they're much smaller. It was pretty fascinating and the boys really loved it.
We left Punta Arenas on Saturday and drove two hours north to Puerto Natales, a town full of hostals catering to those heading to Torres del Paine National Park. We stayed a bit outside of the center of town on a piece of land owned by a man named Miguel and his wife, Angela. They built their own house, along with two tiny-house "cabañas." I'll rank the decision to stay with Miguel and his family right up there with finding Hostal Las Natalias in Futaleufú. The tiny house we stayed in was great and the boys played for hours and hours in the yard, but like our time at Las Natalias, it was the people we met and spent time with that made the difference.
Miguel is a lovely man. We talked for hours (in Spanish - more on this later) about all sorts of things. When the boys and I were out on the lawn after a long day in the park, he brought a beer for me and ice cream for the boys. On our last day, we planned to cook some meat on his home-made grill/fire-pit, and we were joined by the family from Santiago that had just moved into the other tiny house/cabaña. We spent the afternoon playing soccer and dominoes, preparing food, and discussing music and history and politics. After the kids had s'mores and went to bed, Miguel played all of his favorite 70s funk music from his extensive Spotify playlist while we sat by the fire drinking some sort of homemade liquor (warning!) made from the Calafate plant.
One of things we hoped to get out of this trip was to get to know some Chilean people and perhaps establish connections or attachments, however small, with their lives here. We haven't succeeded everywhere we have visited, but with Miguel's family and the family from Santiago, as well as with our time in Futaleufú, we felt that hope realized. While our Instagram will be filled with beautiful photos of the incredible Chilean landscape, it will be these people and our shared moments that will fill our memories and our hearts.
That was heavy, I know.
Anyway, speaking of incredible Chilean landscape. We took two day trips to Torres del Paine, which is I don't even know what. It's spectacular. It certainly helped that we had perfect, cloudless weather. We did a hike to view the "cuernos" (horns) one day and then drove to Lago Grey the next to walk the beach and view the Grey Glacier beyond the giant icebergs floating in the lake. I know New Zealand also will be spectacular, but our tolerance for spectacular is reaching college-student-binge-drinking levels at this point; it's going to take something strong for us to be intoxicated at this point.
Here's a dump of photos from the park:
Aimee and I aren't sure if Torres del Paine is quite as stunning as Cerro Castillo (near Coyhaique), but it's certainly in the conversation. Most people come to Torres del Paine in one of three ways: (1) day trippers from Puerto Natales, like us; (2) posh folks staying in one of the park's outrageously expensive hotels and carried about in Mercedes vans to see what there is to see; and (3) those who actually hike throughout the park, seeing the entire thing. We would have preferred to have been in that third group, but, as good as Cam and Wes have been with hiking, that's not something you can do with young kids (unless you're German and you have German kids - they can do anything). The routes through the park involve at least a few days of 20k-plus difficult hikes. Not accomplishing that this time is, at the very least, a reason to return.
Another reason to return? I can speak Spanish again. It's amazing how much my Spanish has improved from our arrival just over a month ago. Unlike then, it flows now. It's definitely not always perfect and I sometimes get stuck on a word I don't know, but it mostly just pours out and it at least seems like people understand what I'm saying.
I inadvertently speak Spanish to Aimee and the boys and also find myself thinking in Spanish. Always a true test of linguistic progress.
But it is exhausting. Last night, with Miguel and the family from Santiago, I sustained (and translated for Aimee) a conversation about the European conquest of South America (I'm reading a book called "The Open Veins of South America," which is excellent and awful) and how power corrupts. After trying to keep up with Miguel and the others for hours, I was completely drained. I'm looking forward to the break that New Zealand will give me, but I also don't want to lose all of this progress. I'll have to find a way to keep it up back in Milwaukee.
We'll be back in touch soon - probably on Monday before our 12-hour flight to Auckland. That said, we also have to post videos of the boys (we've been delinquent about that), so perhaps you'll hear from them sooner.
Quickly before we go - we wanted to let our friends in Futaleufú know that we're thinking about them as forest fires burn across the river from the hostel. Stay safe.
We miss you all and hope everyone is well.
Love,
Max, Aimee, Cam & Wesley







What a joy and an inspiration to read this! It’s giving me life, as the young people say. Will look forward to the next installment! Holden
ReplyDeleteI am loving following you guys! Simply in awe of all of this. What amazing pictures and experience. Looking forward to hearing from the boys! And your next post!!
ReplyDeleteGreat update! I love hearing about the connections you're making with folks - it's gotta be a transformational experience for all of you. I also wonder if you can sustain the wonder (not to overuse a word) of taking in all of those beautiful nature vistas. I know the first time I went with Paru to Rajasthan, India - after the 3rd day of looking at palaces, I was like "alright, enough with the palaces" - even though it's pretty cool to see architecture that I won't be able to see back in the states.
ReplyDeleteI also wonder what its like to be physically in a place that isn't the US right now. Obviously, you're on vacation, so there's a sense of freedom inherent in that. I just feel like there's just a sense of dread here since November '16, the opposite of "Yes, We Can" - the pictures you share suggest that that's possible.
Thanks Mac. We love your comments. You mentioned earlier the distinction between traveling and touring, and that's something we have tried to be conscious of the entire time. Before our trip, we read a book called "Destination Earth," which presents a kind of philosophy of travel. It divides travel up into different types, very similarly to the travel/tour distinction. Unless you have a lot of time to travel, which we usually don't, it's hard to shift from touring to traveling.
DeleteBeautiful landscape fatigue is also setting in a little bit. Hopefully, the shift to NZ will re-energize us a bit on that front. Getting out of the mountains and into to a city like Valparaíso also has helped. Totally different kind of beauty here.
Hope all is well with you and the girls. Say hello for us!
Too bad the penguin island didn't work out. I found it to be a really cool experience. In late December the chicks were about a month old and so fluffy and cute. The kids' bedroom is decorated with some gorgeous parent/chick penguin photos taken on that trip. You should definitely plan to return for the "W" hike. It gets you much deeper into the park than you can go otherwise. I remember talking to many a German family with kids making these long treks. They set a high bar for kid abilities! I guess I didn't read your itinerary very closely. No El Chalten or Cerro Fitz Roy this trip? Safe travels to New Zealand. I love following your journey. Thanks for posting.
ReplyDeleteThis was such a fun, vivid look at all you guys are experiencing...a great read! Sounds like the people you have met and befriended will remain an important addition to your lives. Very curious to hear about your conversations re. politics with your host, Miguel and the other guests. Hard to believe that your time in Chile is coming to an end. Again, love all the pics of you, the scenery and the cute little Andean deer. Your package is on its way to Auckland and hopefully will be there when you arrive. Have a safe flight to New Zealand. Love to you all, Chris & Doug
ReplyDeleteLoved your post and pictures! Stunning views! Is the water cold where the boys were swimming? Safe travels and thanks for taking the time to share your amazing family adventure.:)
ReplyDeleteGreat update. That evening with Miguel sounds so perfect.
ReplyDeleteMax,
ReplyDeleteAfter more than 20 years in the US, my English is far to be perfect but what matter is that people can understand you no matter how you express it. Those who are picky about the way you speak or are looking you down are not worth it.
Agree going back and forth between two languages in order to translate is exhausting.
Esperanza Malaney will be excited to chat with you when you return to Milwaukee. Bring some of that spectacular back with you too. WI could use a little right now :-) Enjoy your last days in Chile.
ReplyDeleteI've been to Valpo. I liked the acensors (sp) (elevators), that are built into the hills in some places. Quick anecdote/advice -- I visited Chile shortly after college. I didn't have a lot of $$ and I was keen on the bargaining I thought was prevalent in S. American culture. When I found a painting of Valpo and the acensors I liked, I bargained down the artist and got the $20 painting for $10.
ReplyDeleteAfterwards, the guy looked totally dejected. I felt terribly as I walked away with the painting, and decided to run back and give the guy the remaining $10 he had asked for initially.
As I think back about this experience I feel I did the right thing, but I'm not positive. In any case, I think that in Chile price haggling is either not part of their culture or they are so good at it you don't have a chance anyway. My recommendation -- just pay the people what they ask for. Especially artists.
This advice probably would've been useful maybe a month ago. Better late than never. Enjoy New Zealand -- I have no idea about the degree to which price haggling is part of kiwi culture.